“A Mirror of Their Own Being” (Starting Relationships)

People may struggle to recognize and understand what constitutes a healthy relationship due to various reasons.

One factor is the lack of proper role models or positive examples of healthy relationships in their lives. If they haven’t witnessed healthy dynamics in their family or close circles, they may not have a reference point for what healthy interactions look like.

Furthermore, personal experiences, past traumas, and unresolved emotional wounds can impact one’s ability to discern healthy relationship dynamics. These experiences may create patterns of self-sabotage, codependency, or a fear of intimacy, making it challenging to establish and maintain healthy connections.

In matters of love, how someone treats you is a reflection of their character, values, and level of respect for you as an individual. While there are ways to profile specific behaviors (prior to dating) and of course, behavioral conditioning but it is important to strive for a partnership built on mutual respect, kindness, and healthy communication.

In an ideal scenario, a person would treat you with love, care, and understanding. They would value your opinions, actively listen to your thoughts and feelings, and support you in your personal growth and aspirations. They would show respect for your boundaries, honor your individuality, and treat you as an equal partner in the relationship.

A healthy relationship is characterized by open and honest communication, trust, and a willingness to work through challenges together. They should be attentive to your needs, both emotional and physical, and strive to create a safe and nurturing environment where you can both thrive.

However, it’s important to remember that each relationship is unique, and people have their own strengths, weaknesses, and growth areas. It’s crucial to approach relationships with realistic expectations, effective communication, and a willingness to navigate the inevitable ups and downs that may arise.

Ultimately, the way they treat you will be influenced by their own values, emotional intelligence, and commitment to personal growth. It is essential to prioritize your own well-being and ensure that you are in a relationship where you feel valued, respected, and loved for who you are.