America Is Balls Deep [video]
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Now I’m watching the election unfold (and I’m sure you are too), and maybe I come across as anti-patriotic, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. I served five years in the U.S. Air Force as a reservist. I love my country, but after experiencing life abroad, I can say with conviction: healthcare is better, relationships are healthier, and the expectations are just more…real. In the U.S., the standards men and women have for each other feel heavy with entitlement from both sides, weighing down any genuine connection.
Here’s a recent example: I was talking to a guy — two ex-wives, a slew of kids — and he assumed I’d be interested in dating him. I’m not. Honestly, I’d rather get intimate with a broken stick pulled off a tree than deal with that mess.
Then there’s Robbie, a self-proclaimed “sexpat” I recently interviewed. Back in San Luis Obispo, he was shelling out $15,000 a month on his businesses. Now? He’s living in a beachside condo in Thailand, spending $2,500 a month total. That covers his girlfriend, who doesn’t work, his own healthcare, two meals out every day, an office space, and three remote employees, one of whom is Thai. That’s $15,000 down to $2,500. So, what exactly are you paying for in the States?
Is your wife and kids bleeding you dry? Can you afford your mortgage and bills? Rent? Do you live with your parents still?
Do you feel like the “Hoe Economy” in the U.S. has left you disillusioned — always footing the bill and feeling like you’re getting nothing meaningful in return? But let’s not place the blame solely on women.
This issue runs far deeper than gender. It’s a societal shift, a disconnection that affects everyone.
If you have the resources and the foresight, make your move while you still can. In about a year, I’ll be doing just that — keeping my office in SF but living primarily in Bangkok.
Here let me help you this is what you need to live on if you plan to move to Thailand.
Research and Secure a Visa
Thailand offers several visa options for long-term stays, including retirement visas, work visas, and education visas. For many, the Non-Immigrant “O-A” retirement visa (if you’re over 50) or the Non-Immigrant “B” work visa are ideal. Decide on the visa type that best fits your situation, and apply early to streamline your arrival.
Set Up Finances for International Living
Open a Thai bank account once you arrive (or use an international account if necessary), and notify your U.S. banks of your move. Make sure you understand the fees for international transfers and consider options like Wise or Revolut for lower rates. Familiarize yourself with Thai currency, taxes, and any relevant international finance laws.
Plan Your Healthcare
Healthcare in Thailand is affordable and high quality, but make sure you have a plan. Research international health insurance options that cover expats or look into local insurance plans once you’re there. Many expats find Thailand’s healthcare to be accessible and cost-effective, but having insurance provides additional peace of mind.
Secure Housing
Decide whether you want to rent or buy. Rent is very affordable, especially compared to U.S. cities, and short-term rentals can help you explore different areas. Cities like Bangkok, Chiang Mai, and Pattaya all offer a range of housing options from budget apartments to luxury condos with ocean views.
Familiarize Yourself with Local Culture and Laws
Thailand has unique cultural norms and legal regulations. From visa renewal processes to understanding Thai customs and language basics, it’s essential to respect local culture. Joining expat communities online or in-person can help you adapt smoothly and connect with others who’ve made the same transition.
Now remember you can always visit up to 60 days and Robbie said to visit Pattaya and get it out of your system.
Doc
P.S. Don’t miss the first episode of Sexpats on SEX — a show that dives into real-life experiences and practical insights, not the usual unrealistic sex talk that nobody actually relates to.
https://www.facebook.com/100044471497267/videos/2024852967972353/
