Do You Call Me 12 Times After I’ve Refused You As A Client?

It’s astounding how many people lack understanding of proper etiquette, which is why so many professionals are forced to post guidelines and procedures. Why waste their time if you’re not willing to pay? These providers aren’t looking for a relationship — they’re offering a service. If you’re craving a chat, find a girlfriend. Struggling with that? It might be time to address some self-esteem issues.

Today, I wake up to yet another example of why I don’t work with clients under 40. This generation grew up with a warped view of sexuality shaped by endless online porn, confusing it with reality and undervaluing genuine sexual connection. Platforms like Pornhub have flooded the market, turning everyone with a phone into a “star.” It wasn’t always this way — there was a time when you actually had to step into a video store, navigate that walk to the back section, and muster up some courage to explore.

Now, with multiple degrees and over 20 years of experience, I find myself dealing with yet another young person with zero respect for boundaries. This one called me 12 times, hanging up each time, and then refused to pay. I have a PhD in psychology and a solid career in sexuality, and I fully reserve the right to refuse service to anyone. If a client is unstable or poses a risk, I’m prepared to call the authorities for their safety.

This is precisely why I don’t take on young, unstable men. Unfortunately, a significant percentage of men under 40 simply aren’t grounded enough for this work.