“Gone, But Never Forgotten: A Heartfelt Tribute To A Beloved Mentor, Dr. John La Tourrette PhD”
The loss of a loved one is an experience that shakes the foundations of our lives, leaving an indelible mark on our hearts. The pain of losing my mentor is a reminder of the profound impact he had on my life. This article serves as a tribute to the mentor I loved dearly, celebrating the moments we shared, the lessons he taught, and the love that will continue to resonate within me.
Doc was more than just a martial artist; he was my mentor, my confidant, and my guiding light when I came to him young, after a rape and attempted murder that left me, well, quite broken and untrusting of people. His unwavering belief in me gave me the confidence to chase my dreams, even when the path seemed uncertain.
From my earliest memories of him, he was always there — demanding more of me, telling me I was so much more than I thought I was, and sharing the wisdom he’d gained throughout his life.
His presence was a beacon of hope and reassurance that carried me through even the darkest of times.
The values Doc instilled in me have shaped the person I am today. He taught me the importance of self-control, humility, and perseverance. His dedication to his work, and his martial arts was a testament to his character, leaving a lasting legacy that will continue to inspire me and those who knew him. He may no longer be with us physically, but the impact of his life will reverberate through generations.
The grieving process is a tumultuous journey, marked by moments of intense sadness and a longing for what once was. However, it is also an opportunity for healing and growth. As I navigate this new reality without my mentor, I am reminded of the strength he instilled in me. His memory serves as a reminder that I can and will overcome this heartache, even when it feels unbearable.
In the wake of Doc’s passing, I am left with a profound sense of loss (we all are), but also with a determination to honor his memory. I will continue to embody the values he held dear, cherishing the memories we shared and the love of martial arts that binds us together. While my heart aches for his presence, I know that he lives on through the impact he had on my life and the lives of those he touched.