How To Brainwash Your Boyfriend Into Getting More Oral Sex…To Serve You Orally…And to stop being a bitch.

Your Boyfriend is CLUELESS… but hey, let’s cut him some slack. Most men are basically walking testosterone machines — strong in the gym, clueless in the sheets.

Sometimes, you just want your boyfriend to step up, to serve you, to make you the center of the universe for a change. Maybe you’re bored of the same routine — or worse, feeling like his idea of “foreplay” is the same five moves recycled on loop.

But here’s the thing: Men are trainable. And when you use the right frame, you’re not just asking him to do something — you’re inviting him to want it, crave it, and even enjoy it as much as you do.

This is about turning the tables, creating a dynamic where he’s enthusiastically giving without it feeling like a chore. It’s not manipulation — it’s partnership. And it all starts with these steps.

Step 1: The Subtle Reframe

The first step is to plant the seed. Stop talking about oral sex like it’s some task he needs to complete. Instead, frame it as an act of power and control for him.

Say things like:

• “When you’re down there, it’s like you own me in a way no one else does.”
• “I love how confident you look when you’re in charge of my pleasure.”

Notice what’s happening here? You’re making it about him feeling good — not about what he’s doing for you. Men respond to ego, so stroke it (metaphorically… for now).

Step 2: Tie It to Your Pleasure

The second step is to connect his actions directly to your pleasure in a way that feels unique and personal to him. Avoid generic compliments like “That feels good.” Instead, go specific:

• “I’ve never felt this close to anyone else before.”
• “When you touch me like that, it makes me lose control completely.”

When he starts to see the emotional impact he’s having, he’ll feel invested in your experience — and suddenly, it’s not about him ‘giving’; it’s about him feeling powerful.

Step 3: Use Hypnotic Suggestions

You’re not hypnotizing him (unless that’s your thing), but you are creating subtle loops in his mind that build anticipation.

Casually drop lines like:

• “I can’t stop thinking about how amazing you make me feel when you’re there.”
• “Sometimes, when I imagine it, I get this ache, and it’s all because of you.”

The key? Speak in a way that makes him curious and excited without demanding anything. Let him marinate in the fantasy you’re creating.

Step 4: Positive Reinforcement

Here’s the deal: Men are like puppies when it comes to sex. Reward the behavior you want to see more of. The next time he goes down on you, lose yourself completely — moans, gasps, and compliments. Make it the performance of your life.

Then follow it up with validation:

• “I’ve never felt anything like that before.”
• “You make me feel so loved when you’re that close to me.”

He’ll start associating your pleasure with his success, and he’ll want to repeat it — over and over again.

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