How to Turn a Straight Man Gay | A Parallel to “The Metamorphosis” by Franz Kafka | Sissy Hypnosis

Dr. Kali DuBois
4 min readMay 30, 2024

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When we think about the term “sissy,” we often imagine men who desire to be emasculated.

I find this to be quite the opposite. They’re seeking something entirely different, usually validation and permission from a maternal figure to express their sexuality. A man’s first intimate experience is with his mother while nursing, creating a bond of nurturing. Most men I have encountered with this fetish have had a very disconnected bond with their mother.

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Somehow, they end up asking me, “Why am I like this?” I respond, “It’s healthy to question all early programming and to find a healthy way to redevelop your values so you can explore the many facets of what one would consider gender identity. You have to find an intrinsic form of validation because, even if you get permission from me, I am not your unconscious mind programmed with values. This is really about updating your values, and you can do that with NLP and other forms of neurological repatterning.”

I’ve never really talked much about the dynamics between me and my former sissy clients who were either crossdressers, transgender, or fully gay.

Here are some of their stories. One man in particular was a lawyer and scout for a major baseball team. We were together on and off over the years.

He would come into my office in San Jose, put on his wigs and lingerie, and pleasure himself on my desk while deeply hypnotized. In those moments, he forgot his name, his memories, and any attachment to his family duties — duties he was forced into through marriage. He even forgot he liked baseball. In those moments, he was “Christine.”

There were several key individuals I was able to develop these skills on.

Serena, for example, has become more defined over the years on her own. She’s an insatiable slut and quite a brat. When I visit the Bay Area this month I get to spend time with her.

Then there’s Judd, also known as June, a mechanical engineer and founder of a small company based out of Atlanta. Omar, now Olivia, is a Mexican diplomat. And then there was Jake, known as Barbie, a Mormon medical doctor I met in Salt Lake City who did research at Brigham Young. You’d think the ones in the larger cities were the most interesting, but Barbie was intense.

Barbie lived a lie from birth, always knowing who she truly was but spending her entire life concealing it. She would fly down to Bogotá, Colombia, and have lovers without anyone from the Church knowing. The stories Barbie shared with me were unique and exquisite. This was a direct result of what we call the “rubber band effect.” No matter how hard she tried to embrace her identity as Barbie, she would snap back to her original programming because of her ingrained relationship with the Mormon Church.

About five years ago, I wrote a book called “How to Turn a Straight Man Gay.” It was primarily erotica, but it delved deeply into the theme of internal transformation. I named it the Butterfly series, drawing inspiration from “The Metamorphosis” by Franz Kafka. Just like in Kafka’s story, where the protagonist Gregor Samsa undergoes a profound and bewildering tra|nsformation into a giant insect, my series explores how we transform our identities based on the context of our thoughts and environment.

In Kafka’s “The Metamorphosis,” the physical transformation of Gregor into an insect symbolizes deeper psychological and existential shifts. He grapples with feelings of alienation, loss of identity, and the struggle to find his place in a world that no longer recognizes him. Similarly, in my Butterfly series, the characters experience profound changes in their sexual and personal identities, often influenced by their surroundings and internal conflicts.

Both works highlight how our sense of self is not static but is constantly evolving. In “How to Turn a Straight Man Gay,” the characters’ journeys reflect the fluidity of identity and the power of context in shaping who we are. Whether through external pressures, societal expectations, or personal introspection, the transformation process is ongoing and multifaceted.

By drawing parallels to Kafka’s work, my series emphasizes that just as a caterpillar becomes a butterfly, we too are continually metamorphosing, redefining ourselves in response to our inner and outer worlds.

I forgot I even recorded this but it’s up and on Fetlife under the video section. If you have access to video content go here and listen to me reading the first chapter: https://fetlife.com/users/10163973/videos/3674675

I actually removed the book from the marketplace in 2022.

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Dr. Kali DuBois
Dr. Kali DuBois

Written by Dr. Kali DuBois

Brainwashedslut.com - I own a venue in San Francisco that puts on comedy and stage hypnosis shows. I'm a PhD in psychology and I write books on sex.

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