If you want to be prey, then you have to let go of the illusion that you get to control how you’re hunted…

Dr. Kali DuBois
1 min readJan 29, 2025

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You talk about submission, but you want to feel ready first. You want to be taken, but in a way that aligns with your vision. You want to obey, but only after you’re sure it’s what you want.

That’s not surrender. That’s control.

Because real prey doesn’t set conditions. It doesn’t ask to be caught on its terms. It doesn’t pace back and forth, wondering what it’ll feel like when the jaws finally close. Prey runs, knowing damn well that when it’s caught — and it will be caught — there’s no going back.

But you? You’re still holding onto something. A backdoor. A way out. A safety net disguised as a fantasy. You want to surrender but only if it feels right. Only if it aligns with what you think submission should be. But that’s not how this works.

If you truly want to be prey, then let go of the illusion that you get to control how you’re hunted.

Because once you’re mine, your struggle won’t matter. Your guilt won’t matter. Your doubts? Irrelevant. And whether you regret it or not? That’s not your decision to make anymore.

So the real question is — do you actually want to be hunted? Or are you just playing at the edge, pretending you could handle it if it ever really happened?

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Dr. Kali DuBois
Dr. Kali DuBois

Written by Dr. Kali DuBois

Brainwashedslut.com - I own a venue in San Francisco that puts on comedy and stage hypnosis shows. I'm a PhD in psychology and I write books on sex.

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