If You’re Not Mature Enough to Solicit Sex Work, Then Don’t…

Dr. Kali DuBois
3 min readDec 28, 2024

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If you’re not mature enough to solicit sex work, then don’t. Plain and simple. Sex work is still work, and it demands respect. If you can’t approach it as a responsible adult and instead resort to childish, entitled, or disrespectful behavior, you have no business being here.

This is NOT a game.

Yes, we may have playful titles like Brainwashed Sluts for our pornography business, but working with me in person is an entirely different experience.

It’s a serious, professional interaction where respect, focus, and maturity are non-negotiable. What we do in-person goes far beyond the surface—it’s a deeper, more impactful process that requires your full commitment.

The nature of my work is rooted in sexuality — a subject that requires honesty, clarity, and mutual respect. If you want to engage, you do so through the proper channels. You respect my time, my boundaries, and the value of my expertise.

Here’s what I expect from you:

  1. Respect the Process: Understand that this is a professional exchange, not your personal playground. Follow the established protocols and pay what’s owed.
  2. Act Like an Adult: That means no games, no ghosting, no emotional manipulation, and no last-minute excuses.
  3. Communicate Clearly: State your intentions openly and without hesitation. Ambiguity doesn’t work here.
  4. Understand Boundaries: You are not entitled to more than what is agreed upon. My ‘no’ means no — always.

If you can’t handle these basic expectations, then this isn’t the place for you. There are no shortcuts, no bargaining, and no room for disrespect. If you think this is anything less than a serious, professional interaction, you’ve already disqualified yourself.

Approach me with maturity and respect, or don’t approach at all. The choice is yours — but choose wisely.

Today, I had someone show up two hours late for an appointment we scheduled days ago. He didn’t think it was a problem, but I made it clear: I plan my schedule meticulously. If you waste my time, you’re out. He’s not coming back. I kicked him out.

The Rules Are Simple

  • Be on Time: Respect the schedule we agree on.
  • Pay What’s Owed: No exceptions.
  • Speak Honestly: If you want something, say it. If I say no, take it at face value.

This isn’t about being strict — it’s about being fair. You follow these rules, and we’ll get along just fine. Violate them, and the door swings both ways.

The Behaviors That Get You Kicked Out

Let’s make one thing clear: there’s no negotiation on this list. If you engage in any of these behaviors, you’re out — no second chances, no drawn-out debates.

  1. Non-Payment: If you can’t pay for my time, you don’t get my expertise. Simple as that.
  2. Wasting My Time: Long, unpaid conversations via text or phone? That’s not part of the deal.
  3. Discrediting My Work: Whether as a hypnotherapist, psychologist, or dominatrix, if you’re here to undermine me, you’re in the wrong place.
  4. False Familiarity: Don’t confuse professional access with friendship. If you found me through my work, respect the boundary.
  5. Entitlement: Acting like you’re owed my time will get you shown the door.
  6. Lateness: Showing up late to appointments says one thing: you don’t value my time.
  7. Dishonesty: Blatant lies? That’s an immediate no.
  8. Stringing Me Along: If you’re not paying, you’re not staying.
  9. Disrespecting My Space: My facilities are not here for you to treat like a free-for-all.
  10. Thinking You Can Outsmart Me: If you think this is a game, you’ve already lost. Let me be clear — this is not a game. What I do is a highly refined process rooted in hypnosis, with sexual elements seamlessly integrated into it.

If you’re not mature enough to handle that, don’t waste your time — or mine — by contacting me. This work demands seriousness, honesty, and a genuine willingness to engage in the process. Anything less, and you’re out before you even begin.

Doc

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Dr. Kali DuBois
Dr. Kali DuBois

Written by Dr. Kali DuBois

Brainwashedslut.com - I own a venue in San Francisco that puts on comedy and stage hypnosis shows. I'm a PhD in psychology and I write books on sex.

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