Kicked Out — This Guy Ruins It For Everyone

Tonight, I had a client who failed to pay for their session.

When I explained how their lack of payment impacts other important endeavors — such as renting a dojo for a self-defense program I run for women who have survived sexual assault — they responded with laughter. They mocked the idea of supporting victims of crime and the critical work I do with women who have endured extreme violence.

This behavior was a deliberate attempt to hurt me and is absolutely unacceptable. I will not tolerate such blatant disrespect. Effective immediately, this individual has been permanently barred from returning. My work is valuable and deserves respect, as do the programs I dedicate myself to — not ridicule.

Failure to pay, missing appointments, showing up late, stringing me along, or treating me poorly will result in permanent removal. Respect is non-negotiable.

As a result of this incident, we are implementing new protocols.

Unfortunately, this individual’s actions have led to a major shift: session work is now almost entirely unavailable.

This means we’re thinking about no more in-person sessions, no visits to my dungeon, and no further opportunities to work with me directly. This decision is not yet final, I am speaking with my lawyer to see what we can do.

Moving forward, all interactions will be conducted through seminars, classes, and stage hypnosis shows at my venue.

To work with me in person, you must receive a personal invitation from me. We will no longer be offering session work, and this option will not return.

One person’s behavior has ruined it for everyone, and for that, I’m truly sorry.

But if you’re not mature enough to work with a sex worker, or a sex psychologist, or dominatrix, do not solicit one. If you do not have the money, or failure to pay, do not contact them.

This person faces legal action and permanent removal.

Doc