Love Reloaded: Overcoming Jadedness and Falling in Love Again

Dr. Kali DuBois
3 min readMay 3, 2023

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Ladies and gentlemen, we’ve all been there. You’ve had your heart broken, you’ve become jaded, and you’re convinced that love is nothing more than a cruel joke. But fear not! Love is not a lost cause, and we’ve got a comical guide to help you drop your guard, laugh off the cynicism, and take the plunge into the warm waters of love once more. So, buckle up and let’s embark on this laugh-filled journey to renewed romance!

Jaded No More: The Laughing Buddha Approach

Did you know that laughter is contagious? Embrace the wisdom of the Laughing Buddha and make humor your daily mantra. Go on a comedy binge and immerse yourself in sitcoms, stand-up specials, and funny podcasts. As you chuckle your way through life, your jaded heart will slowly start to thaw, making room for love to sneak back in.

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Love, Not War: The Charm Offensive

If you’ve been burned before, it’s easy to approach love like a battlefield. But it’s time to change tactics and launch a charm offensive instead. Approach potential romantic partners with genuine kindness and light-hearted banter. You’ll find that when you’re not armed to the teeth with cynicism, it’s much easier to make a genuine connection.

Time-Traveling to the Love Lab

Sometimes, to move forward, you need to take a step back. Transport yourself to a time when love was a thrilling adventure, not a minefield. Remember how it felt to hold hands for the first time or steal a shy, fumbling kiss? By reminiscing about the excitement of young love, you’ll remind yourself of why you were smitten in the first place.

Be the Hero of Your Own Love Story

Ever noticed how romantic heroes in movies always manage to overcome their jadedness and find true love? Well, it’s time to step into their shoes! Approach your love life like a rom-com protagonist, complete with amusing mishaps, witty one-liners, and an epic soundtrack. As you start to view your romantic journey through a comedic lens, you’ll be more open to embracing love again…

Mission Possible: Operation Love Recon

To reignite your faith in love, you’ll need to gather intel. Reconnect with old friends who’ve found lasting love, or attend a friend’s wedding (bonus points for an open bar). Witnessing other people’s happiness can help you see that love isn’t a myth, and you might even learn a thing or two about what it takes to make a relationship work.

Overcoming jadedness towards love doesn’t have to be a solemn affair. By adopting a light-hearted approach, embracing humor, and learning from the love stories around you, you can rediscover the magic of romance. So, go ahead, let laughter be your guide, and open your heart to the possibility of falling in love again.

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Dr. Kali DuBois
Dr. Kali DuBois

Written by Dr. Kali DuBois

Brainwashedslut.com - I own a venue in San Francisco that puts on comedy and stage hypnosis shows. I'm a PhD in psychology and I write books on sex.

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