“Mastering the Art of Sexual Obedience”
Having a well-behaved lover is essential for a harmonious relationship. While every lover is unique and may require different training approaches, there are several strategies you can implement to help your lover behave better.
Here are a few key tips to guide you:
Consistent Training: Consistency is crucial when it comes to training your lover. Establish clear rules and boundaries, and consistently enforce them. Use positive reinforcement techniques, such as rewards and praise, to encourage desired behaviors. Consistency in training will help your lover understand what is expected of them and reinforce good behavior.
Be specific and provide examples when they have done something wrong and when they have done something right. Clearly explain the behavior or action. Use specific examples to illustrate your point and help the person understand the impact of their actions. This makes it easier for them to recognize their mistake or their positive behaviors and actions.
Expanding Gratification: Proper socialization is vital for a well-behaved lover. Expose your lover to various environments, people, and other ways of sexual gratification. Gradually introduce them to new experiences, ensuring positive associations and rewarding calm and appropriate behavior. Socialization helps your lover develop confidence, reduces fear or aggression, and improves their overall behavior.
As you embrace the novelty of the situations, a sense of connection and intimacy will grow between you. The shared sense of adventure forges a bond that transcends the ordinary, creating a unique and special space for you to connect on a deeper level.
Language of Behavioral Triggers: Install basic commands, such as be happy, get aroused, become curious, and let it go. Command training establishes programming between you and your lover and enables you to manage their behavior effectively. Some think of this to be manipulative but it is nothing than operant conditioning methods overladed with command verbs. Use positive reinforcement and reward-based to make the learning process enjoyable for your lover.
Rewards are to be defined by them, not you, they know what they like, and if you’re willing to give it to them. Then you will enjoy it.
Exercise and Mental Stimulation: A tired lover is generally a well-behaved lover. Just like training any animal. The human animal needs this too. Ensure your lover gets enough physical exercise and mental stimulation every day. Regular gym time, playtime, and interactive sex toys or puzzles can help channel their energy in positive ways, reduce boredom, and prevent behavioral issues arising from excess energy or frustration.
My former lover Andrew, a political journalist, and I would play a game called “Special Places” it was a sexual hunt throughout the Castro District of San Francisco with rhymes and versus on where one would meet if they could meet there. Whoever won (finding the ambiguities out), the loser would have to get on their hands and knees and-lick-and-suck-and-swallow. Often ending up in Dolores Park for sex under the stars and some Thrifty Ice Cream afterwards to clear the throat.
Andrew possessed a unique blend of passion and chivalry. He had a way of lifting my dress above my head and passionately taking me into hidden alleyways, where desire and exhilaration intertwined. Yet, amidst our fiery encounters, he remained a gentleman, always ensuring my safety and well-being. With tender care, he would walk me back to my office, gently wiping away the mascara tears that adorned my cheeks, a poignant reminder of the intensity of our connection.
Patience and Positive Reinforcement: Be patient with your lover and focus on positive reinforcement rather than punishment. Reward your lover for good behavior, and redirect or ignore unwanted behaviors. Punishment-based methods can lead to fear or aggression, so it’s important to use positive and humane training techniques to build a trusting and positive relationship with your lover.
In the realm of love, patience is often the key that unlocks the deepest connections. Such was the case with Peter, the man I adored. Though our love was strong, he carried the weight of sexual hang-ups that cast shadows on our intimacy. But I knew that understanding and patience could pave the way to healing.
With tenderness and compassion, I held space for Peter as he navigated the complexities of his past. I reassured him that our love transcended any limitations imposed by his experiences. Together, we embarked on a journey of trust and vulnerability, allowing the layers of his reservations to slowly unravel.
In those moments of intimacy, I embraced him with unwavering patience, guiding him through the labyrinth of his fears. I held his hand and whispered words of reassurance, assuring him that he was safe and cherished. Gradually, the walls he had built began to crumble, revealing the raw beauty of our connection.
Seek Professional Help if Needed: If you’re struggling with specific behavioral issues or finding it challenging to train your lover on your own, consider seeking help from a professional sex therapist. They can provide personalized guidance and support, identify the underlying causes of problematic behaviors, and develop a tailored training plan to address them effectively.
Remember, consistency, positive reinforcement, patience, and regular training sessions are key to helping your lover behave better. Celebrate their progress, and enjoy the journey of training and bonding with your sexual companion(s). With time, effort, and love, you can help your lover become a well-behaved and happy partner.
