SEX WITH ‘NEUROTICS’ | NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) For Sex | Presupposition: Map Is Not The Territory

Samantha recently dated a neurotic man. Initially, he wanted to be a paying client for a service she didn’t offer. So, Samantha told him, “Hey, I’ll just sleep with you and call you my boyfriend” to maintain her frame.

But what he really wanted was a completely filthy whore who would slam his brains against the walls.

In NLP, a frame refers to the context or perspective through which a situation is viewed and understood. By creating a specific frame, Samantha controlled the context of their relationship to keep her gestalt, or overall sense of the situation, intact.

Samantha enjoyed a touch of neurosis mixed with some sugar, spice, and everything nice because that’s what good girls are made of. This phrase is an idiom, a common expression with a figurative meaning, while a presupposition in NLP is an implicit assumption within a statement.

The man initiated a few text messages but soon complained of feeling smothered. Samantha responded, “If you think a few texts are smothering, then get lost.” She realized that if he felt smothered by minimal contact, his idea of a normal, healthy relationship might be as intense as nuclear war.

In summary, Samantha navigated the relationship dynamics using her understanding of NLP, maintaining her frame and managing the neurotic tendencies of her partner.

Neurotics are fascinating because their behaviors and perceptions are shaped by deeply ingrained patterns and beliefs. They give us something to watch, they’re pure entertainment.

I had a client who, immediately after orgasm, would throw on his pants and bolt out the door. I told him, “Wow, if you need to get things done, all you need is an orgasm! You’re definitely not an agoraphobic.”

Now, I’m assuming you already know what an agoraphobic is.

One way to understand this is through the NLP presupposition “The Map is Not the Territory.” This principle suggests that our perception of reality (the map) is not the same as reality itself (the territory). Neurotics often have a distorted map of reality, created by their past experiences, beliefs, and internal dialogues.

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