“The Art of Serial Dating: Tactics and Motivations Behind the Illusive Pursuit of Love”

Dr. Kali DuBois
2 min readMay 13, 2023

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Get ready to delve into a captivating exploration of the intricate web of tactics employed by serial daters and the underlying motivations that drive their behavior.

“The Master Manipulator”

Meet Alex, the cunning serial dater who possessed a repertoire of manipulation tactics that kept their partners hooked while evading any sense of accountability. Alex had a natural talent for mirroring their partners’ desires and projecting an idealized version of themselves. They knew just how to push the right buttons and exploit vulnerabilities to maintain control in the relationship. By constantly keeping their partners guessing and playing mind games, Alex ensured that they would never be held responsible for their actions. Deep down, Alex harbored a fear of vulnerability and commitment, using manipulation as a shield to protect themselves from emotional intimacy.

“The Illusionist”

In the dating realm, Lily was the master of creating illusions. With a captivating allure and a talent for crafting intricate stories, she weaved an enchanting narrative that drew her partners in. Through carefully calculated acts of affection and seduction, Lily maintained a sense of power and control over her victims. By playing with their emotions and exploiting their desires, she derived a twisted satisfaction from the emotional rollercoaster she put them through. Underneath her manipulative facade, Lily struggled with deep-seated insecurities and a fear of rejection, using her tactics as a defense mechanism to protect herself from being hurt.

“The Eternal Escapist”

Ryan, the eternal explorer of relationships, was driven by an insatiable thirst for new experiences and excitement. He thrived on the initial spark of a new connection but quickly grew restless when faced with the demands of a committed relationship. Ryan’s avoidance of accountability stemmed from a fear of missing out and a deep-seated belief that there was always something better waiting around the corner. By avoiding emotional depth and commitment, he ensured that he could continue his perpetual search for novelty without facing the consequences of his actions. Beneath his restless exterior, Ryan grappled with a fear of vulnerability and a longing for lasting connection, but his fear overshadowed his ability to truly engage in meaningful relationships.

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Dr. Kali DuBois
Dr. Kali DuBois

Written by Dr. Kali DuBois

Brainwashedslut.com - I own a venue in San Francisco that puts on comedy and stage hypnosis shows. I'm a PhD in psychology and I write books on sex.

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