The Fireworks Factory: A Guide to Masturbation for Better Orgasms (For Men)

Dr. Kali DuBois
3 min readMay 3, 2023

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Gentlemen, let’s talk about a topic that’s both familiar and, for some, shrouded in mystery: masturbation. May is Masturbation month and it’s time to elevate your self-pleasure game and unlock the key to more explosive orgasms. So, sit back, relax, and let me guide you on a journey to better, more satisfying solo sessions.

Slow and Steady Wins the Race

When it comes to masturbation, it’s all too easy to rush to the finish line. However, taking your time and building anticipation can lead to a more intense orgasm. Practice edging, which involves bringing yourself close to climax and then backing off, repeating this process several times before finally allowing yourself to reach orgasm.

Switch Up Your Technique

Variety is the spice of life, and that includes your solo adventures. Experiment with different techniques and hand positions to discover new sensations. Try using your non-dominant hand, varying the pressure or speed, or exploring different erogenous zones.

Lube Up for a Smoother Ride

Lubrication is essential for a more pleasurable and comfortable experience. Invest in a good-quality lube to reduce friction and enhance sensations. Just remember to choose a water-based lubricant if you’re using sex toys, as silicone-based lubes can damage some toys.

Explore Your Body

While the penis is the obvious focus of male masturbation, don’t forget about other erogenous zones that can heighten your pleasure. Experiment with stimulating your nipples, testicles, perineum, or even the prostate (if you’re comfortable with anal play). Incorporating these areas can lead to more intense orgasms and a more fulfilling experience overall.

Try Edging

Edging is the practice of bringing yourself close to orgasm, then backing off before you reach the point of no return. By repeating this process several times, you can build up more intense orgasms when you finally allow yourself to climax.

Fantasize and experiment

Use your imagination to fuel your arousal. Whether it’s a steamy memory or a wild fantasy, tapping into your mental pleasure center can help heighten your physical sensations. Don’t be afraid to explore new ideas and desires to keep your solo sessions fresh and exciting.

Set the Mood

Create a comfortable and relaxing environment for your solo sessions. Light some candles, play soft music, or indulge in your favorite erotic material. By engaging your senses and setting the mood, you’ll be more present and focused on your pleasure, leading to a more satisfying orgasm.

Invest in Toys

Sex toys aren’t just for women! There’s a wide range of male pleasure products available, from masturbators and cock rings to prostate massagers. These toys can add a new dimension to your solo play and help you achieve more powerful orgasms.

Practice Mindfulness and Breathing

Focusing on your breath and practicing mindfulness can help you stay present and in tune with your body during masturbation. This increased awareness can lead to more intense orgasms and a deeper connection to your pleasure.

Masturbation is an essential aspect of self-care and sexual exploration for men. By taking your time, experimenting with new techniques, and investing in your pleasure, you can unlock the potential for more intense and satisfying orgasms. So go ahead, indulge in some self-love, and let the fireworks begin!

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Dr. Kali DuBois
Dr. Kali DuBois

Written by Dr. Kali DuBois

Brainwashedslut.com - I own a venue in San Francisco that puts on comedy and stage hypnosis shows. I'm a PhD in psychology and I write books on sex.

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