The Science Behind Erotic Conditioning: Why Hypnosis Isn’t Just a Fetish | Video

Dr. Kali DuBois
2 min read1 day ago

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Your Kinks Aren’t Random — They’re Engineered

Ever wonder why certain sounds, smells, or words instantly turn you on? Why a specific type of voice, a phrase, or even just a look can flip your brain into submission mode? It’s not magic. It’s science.

Erotic hypnosis isn’t just a fetish. It’s a neurological shortcut — an exploit in the operating system of your brain. And once you understand how it works, you’ll never see sexual attraction the same way again.

Pavlov’s Dogs, But Horny

Let’s start with the basics: Pavlovian conditioning. You remember the dogs — bell rings, they salivate. What you might not realize is that your brain is doing the exact same thing with arousal.

🔹 A specific trigger + arousal = conditioned response.
🔹 Repeated enough, it becomes automatic.
🔹 Soon, you don’t even need the original stimulus — just the trigger.

A 2012 study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that people could develop conditioned sexual responses to non-erotic stimuli — like colors, sounds, or words — through simple repetition. In other words, a phrase whispered in your ear enough times can make you crave submission.

Your Brain, Rewired in Real-Time

This isn’t some abstract theory. Neuroscience backs it up. Neuroplasticity — your brain’s ability to reshape itself — means that every time you respond sexually to a stimulus, your neural pathways reinforce that reaction. The more you do it, the stronger it gets.

🔸 A 2014 study in Frontiers in Human Neuroscience found that hypnotic suggestibility is directly tied to increased brain connectivity between the executive function areas and the salience network — the system that determines what grabs your attention (and turns you on).

🔸 Translation? The more suggestible you are, the easier it is to overwrite your sexual programming.

You’re Already Hypnotized

Think about it.

Ever heard a song that makes you instantly feel something? Smelled perfume that made you weak in the knees? Got turned on just from hearing someone say the right words? That’s conditioning in action. Society is already training you — TV, porn, advertising — embedding triggers deep in your subconscious.

🔹 Why do you like a certain “type”?
🔹 Why does power, submission, or certain words make your pulse race?
🔹 Why do some people develop fetishes for things they can’t explain?

Because somewhere along the way, your brain linked it to arousal.

The Final Mindfuck

Here’s where it gets fun. If your erotic responses are just conditioned patterns… they can be rewritten.

👉 That’s why erotic hypnosis isn’t a game. It’s a tool.
👉 A way to reprogram arousal at the source.
👉 And once you learn how to do it? You control the buttons.

🔴 Are you ready to rewrite your desires? 🔴

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Dr. Kali DuBois
Dr. Kali DuBois

Written by Dr. Kali DuBois

Brainwashedslut.com - I own a venue in San Francisco that puts on comedy and stage hypnosis shows. I'm a PhD in psychology and I write books on sex.

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