Why I Stopped The JOIs

Dr. Kali DuBois
2 min readNov 15, 2024

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Hey there,

Let’s get real about where things are headed. The more you gravitate toward OnlyFans, Clips4Sale, and those endless streams of pictures and videos on PornHub, the less likely you are to actually experience sex — real, intimate, connecting sex. Every time you choose the virtual option, it pulls you a step further from the experiences you actually want to have.

I’ve seen it firsthand: I had to stop offering JOIs because one man’s wife caught him, and then she reached out to me. She was polite but clear. She asked if I could steer my work toward helping her husband — helping him become a better partner, more compliant and considerate of her needs, someone who could show up in their relationship the way he used to. Her message was an eye-opener.

I honestly wanted to cry. It hit me that I might have let down a truly good woman. I don’t like to brag, but I’m a very skilled hypnotist (it was almost like I had gone very dark, to a very dark place), and her husband had become hooked on the hypnotic inductions — spending money they didn’t have, drifting further from her, and losing sight of their relationship. I can’t allow that.

Look, I’m doing this for you. I’m bringing you events and experiences that help you connect to real sexual energy, not just pixels on a screen. Hypno Erotic Massage, Hypno Erotic Touch, workshops designed to bring you closer to real intimacy — all this work is for you. These events are a chance to relearn connection, to experience tantra and sexual energy in a way that can make a real difference in your relationships.

So, if you’re ready to move beyond the screens and take back control, this is your invitation. Start here, and let’s make something positive and lasting happen.

I’m doing something fucking awesome. I’m giving you the book for FREE.

If you want a copy just help me out with shipping and I’ll send it out Monday.

Best,
Doc

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Dr. Kali DuBois
Dr. Kali DuBois

Written by Dr. Kali DuBois

Brainwashedslut.com - I own a venue in San Francisco that puts on comedy and stage hypnosis shows. I'm a PhD in psychology and I write books on sex.

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